Envy or not Envy

Thanks Pey Ling to have rekindled with you after almost 10 years since secondary school. Glad to meet you again, but so sorry to hear so many sad stories. Got married and divorced, so many of whom we know.
Haiz... why has it happened?
Is it a tragedy because of wrong choice, or should anyone feel relief to have ended such unhappy relationship?
Don't know. No idea.
Really.
Dare not imagine.
What should the feeling be?
Relieved for not having to endure the broken heart? Or can it be called the sour grapes mentality, being single and unacquaintanted while others have already building their own families, while there are others enjoying romances and warmth and love from the love ones?
Oh... so damn complicated.
Own the freedom of the world to do anything, to go anywhere, to be with anyone, without committment, no burden.
Should envy with the others for what they have, or let others to envy for the freedom?