Friday, March 28, 2008

Thanks, Bee. It Came at The Right Time

前阵子经历了人生的低潮, 情绪很低落, 好友forward的一则电邮来得正是时候:

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
是的. 2个月前她失去了最宝贵的东西, 坐了6-7个小时的车来Sibu, 而我, 在失意的那段时间, 她的家也成了我的避风港.

3 comments:

Amanda said...

it's nice to hear that u still have a safe hideout or a rehab place at a time like tat.. tat's why i too treasure friendship like no other.. still it's a pity i don really have a fren who i could cling too without feeling awkward or guilty at a sad time.. they all have their commitment...
but no matter.. i could always drag someone with me and fly somewhere far for a trip then i'll be fine... huahahaha :D

Anonymous said...

这个阿飞啊, 为什么你的相片一下子瘦一下子肥的?

calleigh-小咪 said...

珑 - 那张跟Bee一起的是一年前差不多这个时候, 那是去参加她的婚礼拍的啦, 跟学
生那张才是前2天照的

Amanda - Yeah, glad to have someone who can understand you, also grateful to have found a true friend